Becoming Yourself

“In Becoming Yourself, Robert expertly reveals how the Enneagram offers an exquisite blend of ancient wisdom and modern psychology to help you become your True Self. I recommend his book wholeheartedly to you.”
— Richard Rohr, author of Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self

“This book is a masterclass in integrating your personality with your soul—helping you to be fully human and fully divine. If you are ready to stop fighting the world and start living with authentic purpose, let Robert be your guide.”
— Gabrielle Bernstein, #1 New York Times best-selling author

“Becoming Yourself is a work of spiritual brilliance. Robert Holden leads people into the wondrous world of the Enneagram with mystical precision, describing human nature and archetypal patterns within the framework of the cosmic power of numbers. This book is truly a spectacular accomplishment.”
— Caroline Myss, author of Anatomy of the Spirit and Conversations with the Divine

“For years, I battled with the habits and behaviors that kept me from realizing my full potential. Then I found the Enneagram. Thanks to Robert Holden, I became a grateful student of the nine Types and learned to see myself and others as both human and divine. In Becoming Yourself, Robert’s passion for the Enneagram is evident on every page. Written with his signature warmth, humor, and good sense, this book has added a new, important resource to the field—one I’ll use for years to come. If you struggle to understand why you do what you do, let the Enneagram help. Take the test, learn about your Type, and let the transformation begin!”
— Cheryl Richardson, author of The Art of Extreme Self-Care

“In Becoming Yourself, Robert brings the Enneagram to life. Through music, art, poetry, and pop culture, you learn about the ‘Types’ and their gifts in a way that’s very relatable. This book is like spending time with a close friend who knows your story, your history, and is rooting for you to be your most authentic self—because becoming yourself is the greatest gift you can give the world.”
— Kyle Gray, author of Angels Are with You Now

“Studying the Enneagram has been one of the greatest tools for understanding myself and my fellow humans. Whether you’re a newbie to the Enneagram or an experienced practitioner, please give yourself the gift of learning about the Enneagram with Robert. It will change your life and your relationships for the better—forever.”
— Sonia Choquette, author of The Answer Is Simple . . . Love Yourself, Live Your Spirit!

“Unequivocally the best book on the Enneagram! Robert has a way to make complex concepts digestible and practical. I saw myself so clearly in this book. Highly recommended!”
— Colette Baron-Reid, author of The Map: Finding Meaning and Magic in the Story of Your Life

“An astonishing achievement. Robert’s new book makes the rich complexity of the Enneagram accessible to all, guiding us toward a greater understanding of ourselves and others. It is a deeply wise companion for life’s journey—profound in its insight and beautifully clear in its expression.”
— Liz Trubridge, producer of Downton Abbey series and films

“Becoming Yourself celebrates the Enneagram as a model for self-awareness that helps us better understand ourselves and each other. It honors the ‘original goodness’ of the soul and how the Enneagram helps us meet our basic fear, heal old wounds, open our hearts, find our essential qualities and talents, while offering a path of lifelong learning and growth. Another substantive gift from Robert Holden to the healing of humans and the world! A classic in its genre.”
— Matthew Fox, author of Original Blessing and Creation Spirituality: Liberating Gifts for the Peoples of the Earth

“Robert Holden has written a book that feels like a homecoming for the soul. Becoming Yourself is a radiant reminder that the Enneagram is not about fixing what’s broken, it’s about remembering the wholeness that has always been within us. With his signature warmth, humor, and deep spiritual insight, Robert offers a loving guide for anyone seeking to live as their truest self. . . . It invites us to see ourselves and one another through the eyes of grace.”
— Dr. Deborah Egerton, author of Know Justice, Know Peace: A Transformative Journey to Awareness, Healing, and Wholeness and The Enneagram Made Easy

“While most books on the Enneagram seem to shrink us down to a number and a type, Robert Holden’s beautiful exploration of this ancient model opens us up to the richness of our being and the possibilities for our life. If you’re ready to become more of who you really are, this book will become your companion and your guide!”
— Michael Neill, author of The Inside-Out Revolution and The Space Within

“Profound, illuminating, and full of heart. In this book, Robert Holden brings the timeless wisdom of the Enneagram to life, guiding us home to a deeper understanding of who we truly are and how we can love more fully, ourselves and each other.”
— Rebecca Campbell, author of Your Soul Had a Dream, Your Life Is It