The Better Friend

“In an individualized and lonely world, Valentine encourages readers through her book, The Better Friend, showing us that we are made for community. She addresses the lies that hold us back from deep connection and speaks the truth on how we can begin to find better friends in order to become all God made us to be.”—Madison Prewett Troutt, bestselling author of The Love Everybody Wants, podcast host of Stay True, and speaker

“If you’ve ever felt overlooked or rejected, or you’ve questioned whether pursuing friendships is even worth it, this book is for you. In The Better Friend, Valentine speaks with honesty and vulnerability about the challenges we face in our relationships with friends. She beautifully expresses the thoughts we’ve all had but haven’t said out loud, guiding us to reflect on where we may need to grow or let go. Through practical insights, tips, and ‘the better friend challenge,’ Valentine teaches us how to nurture the meaningful, healthy friendships we all long for and deserve. This is the book you need if you’re ready to find—and become—a better friend.”—Ashley Morgan Jackson, bestselling author of Tired of Trying, speaker, and writer for Proverbs 31 Ministries

“One of the most important things in a young girl’s life is to know how to find a good friend and how to be a good friend. The encouragement and truth found in these pages feels like sitting across the table from a wise older sister who has your best interests at heart and is always ready to give you the best advice in every situation you might face. I believe this book is a must-read for every young woman.”—Melanie Shankle, New York Times bestselling author of Nobody’s Cuter Than You and Here Be Dragons

“Valentine’s heart as a good friend who champions others is evident in everything she does, and I can’t wait to see how this book will inspire and encourage you. I believe her words will lead you to deeper connections in your friendships and in your relationship with Jesus.”—Laney Rene, founder of The One He Loves

“Many women and girls channel energy into finding the right friends—but very few channel that same energy into being the right friend. This book reverses that dynamic, and I’m so thankful for Valentine’s ability to relate to the pain of friendship struggles while also calling us up to a better way. This message is for all ages, and anyone who takes it to heart will see their relationships transformed!”—Kari Kampakis, bestselling author of Love Her Well and host of the Girl Mom podcast

“The Better Friend is an encouraging, inspiring, and reflective book. Just like the author’s heart, her book is a true reflection of what the Holy Spirit can do through experiences in friendships to reflect the love of Christ.”—Reece Weaver Allman