“For anyone looking for the harmonious middle path between spirituality and trauma healing, the outshining-trauma approach is the perfect antidote to spiritual bypassing. If you’ve wondered if there’s a ‘baby’ in the bathwater of spirituality at a time when so many religions, philosophies, and cultural norms teach us to suppress emotions, gloss over our pain, ignore our trauma, meditate away our ‘parts,’ and numb out on bliss, look no further. Finally someone is helping us navigate the blessings of the spiritual path minus the many pitfalls.”
—Lissa Rankin, MD, New York Times best-selling author of Mind Over Medicine
“I have long been a big fan of Ralph’s work as a writer, teacher, and healer. In Outshining Trauma, he beautifully combines his training in two systems that belong together: Internal Family Systems and Buddhism. What results is a meaningful, intimate, and highly transformative book for working with your own wounds and stuck places. I’ll be recommending this book to friends and students for years to come!”
—Ethan Nichtern, author of Confidence: Holding Your Seat through Life’s Eight Worldly Winds
“You want a teacher who’s lived and worked at life. Ralph De La Rosa is one of the most trustworthy teachers of our time. Deeply compassionate and highly relatable, this book makes you want to do the hard work.”
—Kimberly Ann Johnson, author of Call of the Wild: How We Heal Trauma, Awaken Our Own Power, and Use It for Good
“Packed with perspective on the pervasiveness of trauma and stress, this gem of a resource combines the ancient wisdom of Buddhism with modern psychotherapeutic methods and philosophy, gently guiding readers to know what it means to outshine their traumas and find freedom from the past.”
—Amanda Gilbert, author of Kindness Now
“Whether you’re dealing with trauma yourself or supporting someone who is, Outshining Trauma offers invaluable insights and practical steps to guide you on your journey. Ralph De La Rosa’s message is clear: healing is possible, and you have the power to outshine your trauma.”
—Eric Zimmer, host of The One You Feed podcast
“Ralph De La Rosa masterfully blends trauma-informed Internal Family Systems (IFS), post-traumatic growth, and Buddhist meditation into a cohesive, practical, and beautiful book. His approach brilliantly teaches how to walk the long and crucial journey from head to heart in a manageable and enriching way. With insightful exercises and tools, De La Rosa takes us through the process of healing from trauma using IFS language, inviting us to see post-traumatic growth as a real possibility. Drawing from his personal experiences and professional expertise as a therapist and Buddhist meditator, he offers a fresh perspective on the challenging yet exhilarating path to recovery. This book is an invaluable companion for anyone seeking to heal and grow.”
—Dr. Edith Shiro, author of The Unexpected Gift of Trauma: A Path to Posttraumatic Growth
“I have always appreciated Ralph’s levelheaded honesty and down-to-earth perspective from which he so comfortably teaches as we navigate the traumas of our lives. In Outshining Trauma, Ralph’s sharing of his own difficulties illuminates the recipes for transformation in a very relatable style that highlights each of our journeys to self-compassion. I am always happy to see a new addition to his excellent body of work.”
—Raghu Markus, Executive Director of Love Serve Remember Foundation and host of Mindrolling podcast on Ram Dass’s Be Here Now Network
“Outshining Trauma is an essential read for anyone struggling to overcome trauma. Drawing on years of clinical experience, a deep commitment to spiritual practice, and his own healing journey, Ralph helps us understand that post-traumatic growth is indeed possible when we commit to radical self-compassion. He offers many practices that bring us into loving relationship with ourselves, and his writing style is so friendly and accessible—it’s like he’s walking the path with us and cheering us on.”
—Linda Sparrowe, author of Yoga at Home and Yoga Mama
“Offering profound insights and posing thought-provoking questions, De La Rosa creates a nurturing atmosphere where readers feel supported every step of the way. There are even jokes to lighten things up from time to time. His writing fosters a beautiful exchange, encouraging readers to engage actively in their personal growth. In the hands of Ralph De La Rosa, readers are assured a transformative opportunity to explore and understand themselves on deeper levels. As a person with almost zero spiritual practice, I felt myself engaged the full way through. Now, excuse me while I go on a Curiosity Walk.”
—Bonnie Pipkin, author of Aftercare Instructions
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