Holding It Together

Praise

“Holding It Together is both an authoritative indictment of current and past US social policy and an empathetic, unsettling portrait of American motherhood. Jessica Calarco has masterfully leveraged the insights of a wide range of data to reveal the institutional engines of our deeply unequal status quo.”
— Jennifer Breheny Wallace, New York Times bestselling author of Never Enough
 
“Care is the cure for much of what ails us. But it is also often hard, tiring, uncompensated work that is pushed overwhelmingly onto women. Jess Calarco recounts moving, often wrenching, care stories of mothers, daughters, and wives across America, illustrating the deep injustice and short-sightedness of our current care system. Bring on the care union!”
— Anne-Marie Slaughter, CEO of New America and author of Unfinished Business: Women Men Work Family

“Holding It Together is a punch in the gut and a call to action. It’s beautifully and persuasively written, exhaustingly researched but never overwhelming. No one’s writing makes me angrier about the way we’ve replaced our social safety net with the labor of women — but no one is more effective in convincing me there’s a different way forward.”
— Anne Helen Petersen, author of Out of Office and the Culture Study newsletter

“[Holding It Together] is the truth-telling we’ve been waiting for, helping us understand the landscape of policy choices and cultural narratives that have kept us from building the safety net we need and deserve in the United States. Calarco equips us with clear, sharp analysis and the appropriate level of outrage for action.”
— Ai-jen Poo, author and president of the National Domestic Workers Alliance
 
“Powerful and urgent. Jessica Calarco documents the sweeping costs of the political decision to make women responsible for the domestic work that other affluent nations cover with the welfare state – costs that not only women, but also every American family and community pay- and issues an unignorable call for change.”
— Eric Klinenberg, author of 2020: One City, Seven People, and the Year Everything Changed

“Holding It Together embodies the sociological imagination. It is urgent, important, smart, and it changes the way you understand what you thought you knew. Jessica Calarco weaves powerful narrative with compelling empirical data to give us a metaphor for understanding our economic lives: women as social safety net. It is a fundamentally sound, well-argued thesis that sharpens a reader’s analytical lens. Once you see the economy the way Calarco describes it, you cannot unsee it. You will also feel compelled to do something about it. “
— Tressie McMillan Cottom, Professor at UNC-Chapel Hill and columnist for The New York Times